HOW TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WORK

 

Cupid knows no boundaries

The sparks of love is an overwhelming display of beauty to behold  and feel. Delicate as an egg, if nurtured  can last for decades.

When love stories are told, amidst the hiccups  that are bound to come, yet be overcomed. Warm smiles braces the lips and excites the heart.

Imagine loving someone that doesn't love you. It's exhausting!  It's easier if the love given, is returned with the same intensity.  

Communication when comprehended is also a good foot stone for a successful relationship.  A misconstrued dialogue can dampen hearts  and end relationships prematurely.

Disrespect and comparison is also a soul and love minimizer. To keep the conversation going you must talk about anything and everything to intrigue and maintain interest.

Another critical  factor that Is needed to make relationships work is trust. A paranoid mind that negatively judges and exaggerates  little irrelevant issues in due time exhausts a partner into throwing in the towel. Stay positive and focus on how to spice up your relationship. 

Don't expect to eat your cake and have it, the universe has a way of garnishing and serving us with  what we each deserve. Respect  yourself and the relationship  and stay loyal and committed to your partner.

Choose peace over being right all the time and forgive petty mistakes. Be quick to Apologize , escalating and blowing little issues out of proportion always traumatizes your partner and drains the excitement out of the relationship. Let go of past mistakes and don't keep referring to them.

Keep third parties (ex's, side pieces- anyone who threatens the relationship and anyone your partner raises genuine concerns about) at a healthy distance, better still cut them off. Protect  the sanity  of your partners. 

Gifts are a material way of showing love  whether big or small , your partner will always remember and will appreciate the gesture.

Based  on your religious  and moral standing (the subject of sex) is a choice you both have to make.

Whether to indulge in sex before or after marriage, either way it's best to always  spice it up to prevent it from been boring.

It takes two to tango, for any relationship to work out alot of compromise,  mutual interest and effort is needed to keep it going. 

Keep at it. Love happens.  True love stays.

Written by Daphne Addison